Well. I remember watching Oprah, that episode where she mentioned that most women have never seen their vagina. Now, most women would tell you, self and Oprah included, that it's a scary sight if you've never seen one before. lol Guys have it easy. You can look down and there it is. For a girl, you have to get a mirror and become a contortionist. lol So it doesn't bother me if a guy says he doesn't like the bottom half of a gal because I'm still trying to figure out the appeal. My guy waxes poetic and I just shrug and say whatever rocks your boat.
I like looking at people, people with interesting faces, beautiful people, androgynous people, fit, lean, stocky, it doesn't matter. Doesn't matter if its a guy or girl. There's just some folks who turn you on. I'll agree with the person who said that it's mainly the fact that it's something you've never tried that scares you about it. Like mushrooms for me. I pick em out of my food all the time. Never had them but I don't wanna eat them because I've never had them and the anticipation of the Ick Factor just shuts down my appetite for the entire meal. Someone who actually likes mushrooms can really get into a cooking show on TV and experience real hunger. I get that way with chocolate. I know what chocolate tastes like, I can feel the smooth silkiness of it sliding across my tastebuds just by looking at it. I drool and my stomach begs for it when a commercial comes on. Of course, it has to be Cadbury's or nothing. No Mars bars for me! Bad experience.
I've got a vagina and I don't want to go up close and personal with one due to negative anticipation. I'm honest. I'll continue to leave that question unanswered until I actually decide to answer it. As far as boobs go, I don't particularly like mine played with so I guess that's why I don't find the idea of another woman having hers played with appealing. I can't get excited over watching that. I just feel uncomfortable as in "that's got to be uncomfortable" because I know how it feels on me.
Watching anyone go down on a woman I can't relate to it because I've never done it. I tend to be more focused on that act instead of watching the suckee and relating to her experience. Now put a woman giving head and I can totally relate and get turned on. I wouldn't focus on the woman but more the remembered taste or scent of a guy. I've done that before so I can re-experience it. Other women who've never given head or have had bad experiences giving head, might disagree with me.
I think that's how it works. It turns us off because we've never been in that position and therefore can't relate it to any experience we've ever had. It becomes a distraction instead of a turn on. I don't know. Maybe one day I'll try to shove the Ick Factor out of my head and eat a mushroom without the thought of ickiness or allergic reaction. As for women go, they would fall under the same category as men. I'm not attracted, or wish to have a relationship with, every guy I see. I'd have to have a connection with a person first. Although sex is part of a relationship, one sex act is not the end all be all to everything.
Maybe one day mushrooms might be my chocolate or tofu. Tofu was under my ick factor once and I tried it one day. If I ate it again it wouldn't bother me but it does nothing for my tastebuds. I can eat it just to have something to eat but I'm not passionate about it. I've got no love or passion for tofu.
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